Hi There! So If you read my previous post you already know what is about to go down. I think I need to use an Acronym for this. How about WAWMAT. Yesss I like it!!!!! Anyway anyway let’s not get distracted.
Disclaimer : This is me writing with hunger, mixed with anger. So maybe it’s going to be hot. Or not. I don’t know. Let’s seee
Just last week I asked this question on my Instagram and I had a lot of #WeMove’s #WeLocomote . Now , while Im psyched for this. I would like to explain something.
A lot of you are going to say ‘oh it was just one hit, oh he was drunk, oh give him another chance, and the one that PISSES ME ALL THE WAY OFF. ‘It is marriage o, you don’t just get up and leave, talk things out’. Brb Im serving food…..
Okay I’m back . So like I was saying, I get the whole marriage is work thing okay? I get it. I know you are supposed to work to keep it going, but NOT AT THE EXPENSE OF YOUR LIFE. YOUR HAPPINESS AND SAFETY. Please. Something we forget is how much physical and emotional damage one hit can do. Someone can be damaged by one hit. You don’t have to wait for 20 more before the sense locates you.
What kind of person are you if alcohol makes you lose control? So every-time you drink you will hit your woman? Everytime your man drinks you will be walking on egg shells? Have you even see drunk people? They walk around spilling secrets and truths. Now tell me, your drunk state is a different person from you.
People walk out of marriages all the time, you won’t be the first. Marriage is not the end of life. Marriage is not the ultimate purpose of life. Please.
Someone told me you have to exercise patience and help the person change. It was the ‘change’ for me tbh😂😂. Because WHOOT??? Even ordinary ‘oh baby eyaa post my pictures’ how many of you are still begging your manz to do it??? Ordinary calls and texts, how many are still begging men they are dating to do this. And you want to CHANGE a whole ABUSIVE partner??? Haq haq haq
You CANNOT change anybody, unless the person WANTS to change him/herself. You will be exercising patience and today you will lose your teeth, tomorrow you will break a bone, the nextweek, you are being lowered 6 feet with your patience in the casket with you. And that’s on AWUDOME.
Don’t be mistaken. I LOVE LOVE. Ive had my heart broken soo many times but I definitely believe in love and I want to marry. NOBODY is perfect but you have to do this life thing with someone who is worth all the shit you will go through. And Dying, losing apart of you, constantly being unhappy IS NOT one of them. We come into this life alone. Na so we go go
To the women who stay because of their kids. I understand. Trust me I do. A woman was being beaten constantly and stayed, for her kids. Do you know when she left? The man poured Acid on her face. ACID. Now she is deformed. The kids she stayed for can’t even recognize her. She can’t move on with her life, but the man??? Ohh on to the next!
I’m sorry if it’s too graphic but I had to show you. You need to see it charle.
Aside that, your kids see the Abuse. That fucks them up. Badly. They end up being messed up or abusive or both. Nobody wants that for their child.
Yeah I think that’s all I have to say. The Anger has gone down. It’s a new morning and I’m not as angry so I’m going to stop here.
Catch you same time, same feelings, same place, next time on my blog😂. I love you❤️. I may be angry, but I love you😂❤️